Relationship advice for dating a divorced man
Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.5.
It’s not your job to change or fix her Your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing.
Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.16. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time. Truth is, If you are reading this and find wisdom in my pain, share it those those young husbands whose hearts are still full of hope, and with those couples you may know who may have forgotten how to love.
Be fully transparent If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds…Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be. Never stop growing together The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your marriage. In the end marriage isn’t about happily ever after. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. One of those men may be like I was, and in these hard earned lessons perhaps something will awaken in him and he will learn to be the man his lady has been waiting for.
Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife.
Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.11. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.13.
The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out, and as you remain strong and unjudging she will trust you and open her soul to you… Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Be present Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Don’t be an idiot And don’t be afraid of being one either. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make.
Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.9. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.14.
Give her space The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself.