Christian dating is weird
Of course, everyone is on a journey and they don’t expect perfection.But everyone can ask themselves: Do you live within your means? Are you on time for appointments and meetings, do you honor commitments?Remedy: If you haven’t, it might be a good idea to start getting your life organized.Not only will it be helpful in attracting a responsible man and in the overall happiness of a relationship, it will make you happier too! Poor Listening Skills One guy said, “It’s a turn off for me when a girl asks me a question but then doesn’t listen.That being said, I interviewed a group of single and married men this weekend about their dating experiences. A girl who is constantly seeing the negative in everything or complaining about little things is a red flag to a guy.As I spoke with them, they expressed the major things that turn them off in the dating phase. He wants to spend his time with someone who is refreshing and positive to the soul. No one likes to be around someone who brings them down.Remedy: Start paying attention to comments you make about service at restaurants, waiting in long lines, etc.
A fulfilling relationship includes two whole people joining their personalities, goals and ambitions together for a greater purpose. Entitlement When a man pays for your meal, movie or whatever it is…always say thank you and show appreciation.I have had several comments on my Husband List article expressing the importance of holding ourselves to the same standard to which we do in a man.If we want a great guy, then we need to be the kind of girl who will attract that guy.Remedy: Keep your phone in your bag throughout dinner/date night.You can check it periodically, use your best judgement. Pursuing Guy or Being Too Available A man respects what he has to earn.